Kathleen Said:

I fear that I wont be successful in life and wont ever get a job because I dropped out N have social anxiety?

We Answered:

I am so sorry that you were made to feel that you would not succeed. I don't know you personally so all I can do is give you my opinion. First of all you need to believe in yourself. It is very important if you want to succeed. To help prepare yourself for a GED test you can go to the library and get a GED book. Email your councilor again. Let her know that you are very serious. If you don't think you can do this (get GED, get a job,etc) Then do it for your dad I know that he believes in you. You can do anything you want you just have to put your mind to it and put your whole heart in it. You have been so brave so far for your dad, and I wish you all the best. Just remember that people who bully only do so because they are unhappy with their life or themselves. Please don't give up be strong and show your dad that your the man he always knew you would be!! You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless.

Stephen Said:

Help me with my miserablelife..I need counseling?

We Answered:

OK FIRST YOU NEED TO SEEK THE HELP OF A PROFESSIONAL COUNSELOR IN PERSON.

MY OPINION IS THAT I FEEL FOR YOU AND IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU DID HAVE A ROUGH UPBRINGING AND IT HAS FORMED WHO YOU ARE TODAY. THAT BEING SAID

YOU ARE NOW CROSSING INTO ADULTHOOD AND HAVE THE ABILITY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE AND MAKE WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF IT. DO NOT LISTEN TO THE NEGATIVE VOICES OUT THERE. THERE ARE MANY, FIND A PLACE WHERE YOU CAN SEEK SUPPORT (SADLY TO SAY IT MAY NOT BE YOUR FAMILY AT THIS POINT IN TIME).

YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND CAN DO IT. WORK HARD AND SET YOUR MIND TO IT. IF WRITING IS YOUR PASSION THAN GO FOR IT (AND I REALLY DO NOT BLAME YOU, I WOULD NOT WANT TO CARE GIVE EITHER).

IF YOUR GRAMMAR SUCKS (SO TO SPEAK) THAN WORK ON IT! USE THE NEGATIVE THINGS AS MOTIVATION TO CREATE A WORLD FOR YOURSELF IN WHICH YOU FEEL GOOD, APPRECIATED, LOVED AND VALUED.

YOU ARE WORTH IT, SEEK IT FOR YOURSELF!

TRY TO UNDERTAND THE PAST AND MOVE FORWARD. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE WHAT HAPPENED IN THE PAST.

AGAIN GO TO COUNSELING AND TRY TO WORK IT OUT NOW SO THAT YOU CAN MOVE ON AND HAVE A FULFILLING LIFE!